A match hasn't responded to your message? You find that you generally don't receive enough responses?
Please don’t take it personally if a match doesn't respond to your contact attempt. Most of the time it means that a member has already found the person they were looking for or that they are no longer active on our website, which means they may still need to delete their profile. Alternatively, they might not have subscribed to a Premium membership yet and cannot read or write messages.
It can sometimes take a while for them to reply because they don't log in everyday. It's always best to be a bit patient, they usually respond in the end. After all, it's always nice to know that someone wants to get to know you!
In the meantime, double check that all the fields in your profile are complete, including "Interests", and that you have uploaded more than one good quality photo. People are more likely to reply if your profile is interesting so make sure it stands out.
We always like to encourage our members to communicate with each other but sometime it's the first time they have tried internet dating and so they are hesitant to answer, or may not even know how to respond.
You could send them a smile first, just to let them know they have been recommended to you. When you visit a profile, or send a smile or message, you get added to their Matches list, so they will know that you have shown interest in them.
So don’t be discouraged! In the meantime, EliteSingles will continue to send you new, compatible matches who are probably just waiting for you to send them a smile!